You can't "force help" on someone without getting a black eye, per se .. .. ..
And if all you people'd rather do is MOCK me and BELITTLE me and everyone like me then hey, that's not the way to ask for help. You ask for help by saying to someone "hey, could you help me?" and the like. Not by being destructive to them. Ok?
So that's how it's going to go then. Until otherwise noted, until something else works out, and so on and so forth on THAT topic .. .. ..