Love of the self, FOR the self .. you CANNOT CALL THAT ABSTINENCE.
It is a CONTINUUM .. You cannot analyze a continuum and expect a single result you can put your finger on!
People get so caught up in analyzing this, analyzing that .. that all the SUDDEN .. they FORGET what their original POINT of ANALYSIS IS .. .. ..
Go figure .. .. .. That's all it is, is GO FIGURE .. .. ..
It's DUMBFOUNDING how ignorant people can be over thee most simple SIMPLE things .. .. ..
Why this? Why that? Like .. can you just DROP your fingers POINTING at each other ?? We're BLAMING OURSELVES TO DEATH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD !!!